Purity: Permissibility of Foreplay During Ḥayḍ
Practical Laws of Islam as per the teachings of Ayatullah Sistani
Ruling 451:
Apart from having sexual intercourse with a ḥāʾiḍ, there is no problem in deriving other forms of sexual pleasure with her, such as kissing and foreplay.
-Ayatullah Sistani, Practical Laws of Islam, Purification (Taharah)


